I try not particularly stand out ...

The heart starts pounding wildly. Fortunately, with the first rays of the sun our nightmare is fading away, but the fear of bursting as the needle punctured balloon. And we understand that just our imagination working against us. And yet this state is repeated with remarkable regularity over and over again. Should we be afraid of fear? If you can dominate and control your fear, in this case, it performs a useful protective function. He seemed to warn you of potential dangers, trying to draw your attention to the situation. Fears may render good service to become a kind of motor that makes overcoming the problem. In your mind like a lighted red lamp and gives a call to action. Suppose you feel that you have to work on the dark clouds looming and the bleak prospect of being fired. You start feverishly thinking about how to improve the situation in their favor. And if you do not fuss and all will be able to properly reflect, reason and intuition help you to get out of an unpleasant situation. If it were not for fear of losing their jobs, then most likely you would have released the situation out of control. Or another story. You suddenly feel the spinal cord, that the favorite does not respond to you, look at him some absent and far away. First, of course, you covered a quiet panic. "Help!" He stopped loving me! Not only as his friend. " The fear at this time completely mastered all of your creature and broke your heart once serenely sleeping this emotional storm. However, after a while you calm down a little and begin to talk sensibly. Most likely you will be engaged with their appearance and try to return the location of her husband. Do you think that causes a person to earn lots of money to buy an apartment, a car and open a bank account? Fear of poverty. Life itself and the media constantly throw us all new reasons to fear. For example, ten years ago, the terrorist attacks, we knew only by hearsay. A white powder containing anthrax spores? We strongly harassed on all sides, and instead help us get out of the depressed state, only deeper into him. Television news became increasingly resemble a horror movie series. The more adrenaline causes the audience TV channel, the higher the rating. So help yourself. Coefficient of fear Ask first counter: "What are you afraid?". And most likely get the answer: "Nothing." In fact, it is either hiding something, or disingenuous, or are in the dark about their fears. Often they are hidden deep in the subconscious, and some ladies are not even aware of their existence. Although they often visit the following thoughts. n When I'm good, I'm afraid that soon the circumstances change for the worse. n When they tell me compliments, I'm afraid to disappoint his companion and feel uncomfortable. n I try not particularly stand out, not to attract attention. A quiet life for me, the most expensive.