There is great temptation to play ...

There is a great temptation to reproduce the previous result of the ranking points, but then - then kroitsya trap. We are not always objective. Of course, communicating with a child is much more valuable than working. However, your "cake pleasure" shows the real situation. Try to be sincere with you. And in reality, the pleasure derived from eating often, it turns out, takes much more space than might be expected, surpassing sex and intercourse. And this is alarming. We often get hooked own subconscious mind and how the fish entangled in his nets. Now Relate the value of pieces of cake (how much space in your life, this factor is in reality) and the amount of points (ie, how much you treasure these things) Draw your own conclusions. Among men, there is a perception that women with an appetite for absorbing food, as "voracious and appetizing in bed." In part, this is justified, because the basis of both behaviors is one attraction. According to Freud it is the attraction to life. This can be attributed to the desire of procreation and the survival instinct. However, women often overeat at the basis of their lack of control over their eating behavior are communication difficulties with men, sexual problems, coldness in bed. Completeness, therefore, is a kind of protection from traumatic psyche of "failed" dating. Excess weight appears pretext for abandoning intimacy and a justification to myself. "What is good to get acquainted, build relationships, to experience - get it?" "I'm so fat, of course, that men ignore me." And so to spare his feelings, ladies blamed on excess weight all their problems in communicating with the opposite sex. Nourish the illusion that if it were not for completeness, then success would be assured. A heavy sigh burst from his chest, looking at the pretty lace and ruthlessly crashing into the folds of fat. Of course, the same shall be taken from a passionate desire intimacy, when removing clothes under a great romantic music, you remember his "ugly" in the mirror. Yes, there can be no sex. Better to avoid it at all, referring to a headache or shortness of breath due to excess weight. Sometimes the completeness hides deep emotional scars, have experienced in my youth. Unfortunate unrequited love or an insult conveyed a cynical act of a partner led to the conviction that "all men - scoundrels and liars are not capable of genuine feelings." This opinion is particularly easy to take root in single-parent family where the mother at the time, left his father, willingly or not willingly, trying to protect her daughter from disappointment to discredit the male image, warning about the worst. Completeness helps establish some misconceptions. With each new attempt to establish a trusting relationship, fatty says to himself: "I just knew my mother warned me, + all men should be the same," it is not important soul, they are attracted only a slim figure, and therefore I can not be the object of desire.