Friday, 22 April 2011

Another option of forming ...

disease

Meanwhile, workaholism - an illness. Exactly the same as any psychological dependence. Actually, depending on what we know? Any one of us answer this question confidently call the familiar triad: alcohol, drugs, smoking. Perhaps, especially advanced recall more about gambling and all. Meanwhile, the psychological dependence - a much broader concept and dependencies themselves disproportionately. Recently, researchers working with this problem, more often say that today one can hardly find a person really free of any dependency. Even if we do not use drugs to stop poisoning the body by excessive doses of alcohol or nicotine, it still We find for themselves a loophole in the whirlwind of everyday life, through which "run away" for a while in an "alternative" status, whether they gamble or disturbing the nerves "Extreme" or a newfangled cult, reveals the secret of "eternal life" or unrestrained gourmandise or in a virtual paradise on your computer. Allocate even psychological dependence on a certain person or, for example, from heavy, traumatic, become intrusive memories. All these numerous depending so diverse that it is sometimes extremely difficult to find some sort of regularity. Indeed, that may be common between the gambler, life is unimaginable without chocolates homemaker and dnyuyuschem and nochuyuschem to work a workaholic? And what kind of disease like this - "dependence"? In humans, there is a dependence, if his mood, thoughts, behavior, sense of comfort depends on some external conditions. Dependence - is a permanent choice in favor of actions that destroy human life. This - the loss of control over their emotions and behavior without the "drug". This desire for an ever-increasing "dose". Dependence - it is a way to escape from unpleasant reality. Moreover, such an escape does not alter this reality, but only aggravates with time experiences. Dependence deprives a person actually makes it spiritually blind and deaf. At the same feeling of inferiority only grow stronger. And a workaholic work gradually turns into a shield against the fear, anxiety, self-doubt and in the future, from the turmoil in his personal life. Person uses the work as a means to escape their problems and difficulties. So the work is transformed into dependency. Another option depending on the formation of labor is associated with an exaggerated sense of its own usefulness and significance. Perhaps such a person in childhood are often taught that to be a good person, you need to do something useful for society, just as "you will love, just so you'll need someone." Having once pleasure, euphoria of good luck after the excellent work done when a sense of self-importance, grows to the sky, a man begins to feel uncomfortable, do not give this euphoria again and again. He begins to unconsciously look for a condition that, perhaps, will remain elusive, no home, among friends, nor anywhere else.

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