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Living in retirement

For some reason, There is the notion that post-retirement life ends and the person is ready to "put a cross." People assess their condition in every way, but fear and uncertainty in the future had a chance to feel each person who retired because they are suffering self-esteem drops and social significance. Difficulties adapting to new conditions and breaking the usual order of life affects the well-being, mood and behavior. And people who have not yet grasped these sensations, do not think much about how to maintain a smooth psychologically during this period. Things that seem simple and old-age, often interpreted by both ridicule. Increased vulnerability, resentment, sense of lack of demand. Every man in the face of these difficulties, finds salvation from this situation: someone takes a position for themselves independent of the obligations of a person, someone voluntarily assumes the case of the household. And they are absolutely right, because every person has the right to build their lives as he wants himself. Oen nice when relatives are worried about their elderly parents, so they lived not only problems of the family, but his personal life. Only need to remember that people chose for himself a way to be helpful. Outside the case by doubts he can afford all sorts of pleasures of life, such as a trip to a rest home or sanatorium Belarus, buy yourself a nice breeze, even if he thinks he has everything. It is important to remember that there is a second breath, and life in retirement is very agreeable, if you put in front of life challenges and incentives that will always give an opportunity to start a new life. "Second Wind" depends on what is a man in his relation to his relatives, associates, currently. Need to smile, enjoy life, doing good things and do not forget to have fun. Helps creativity, inspiration and ability to overcome the pessimism. Equally important is to fully use the time and skill they cherish. We must not forget about communicating, meeting with friends and family. If people thought a gift every passing day, enjoyed fellowship, friendship, often thought of his behavior and attitude towards others, often told friends about his love for him, life would be an order of magnitude more pleasant.

Educate lucky!

We want our children to grow up confident and happy, but for some reason they often suffer from various complexes, and consider themselves inferior to others. And if we ourselves do not reward them with these problems? Psychoanalysts say that we all experience in childhood major complexes: the Oedipal, inferiority, unattractiveness of their appearance ... But with a favorable scenario, the circumstances they lived out, and we do not drag them along into adulthood. But sometimes the complexes do not receive their completion. Inferiority complex arises from the little man when he finds that his parents love him not for what it is, but for his successes.