So here are equally dangerous as a blind imitation of the girl's mother and her protests. Exit. If mom wants daughter to be happy, now that she's family did not work, we must urgently change itself, to do their female destiny. In this case, it is not necessary to rush to find another. Enough to pay attention to your feeling of happiness and of the fact whether you take your age, whether the comfortable feel to it. As far as your life fully. Situation: My mother got married. It appeared the man to whom his daughter does not feel anything but great jealousy. Jealousy and its accompanying feeling of loneliness born in the case where the mother declares: Overall, I love you brought up, it's time to do them. After teenager ever need attention moms. But do not care, and contact with her as a woman. Exit. Jealousy can be redeemed early if pay more attention to the teenage daughter as a little woman. Have to go with her to the store, but not to the grocery, and in perfumery and cosmetics. Make joint purchases, browse through fashion magazines, to discuss the cuts, to try on jewelry. This will be the first contact with adult femininity. And then the girl quite differently perceive man appeared. Namely: my mom is successful, it is like, she's beautiful and happy woman, I'm proud of her. Situation: A girl is locked in themselves, insisting that she did not like all, unattractive and awkward. This is a typical range of adolescence. At this time, all problems are global in nature - abandonment, loneliness, rejection themselves. Exit. Mother should teach first and most important lesson of the female - you do not like the others, and this is your uniqueness. And to do this, the most refreshing feelings and sensations. First of all, accept and love your body, pay attention to how you move and feel like. Show his daughter that is femininity. After all, your relationship with your grown up girl is entering the phase transfer of female inheritance. Situation: The daughter began to deceive you. Most importantly - find out why this is happening? It protects your nervous system, or afraid? Rather, second, because usually children lie in self-defense. Exit. You may have to loosen a bit the framework in which you hold his daughter, and to replace tight rein on the love and affection. Take a teenager for what he is, with all its sharp corners, be patient and learn to listen carefully. Situation: You have learned that secret from the parents of a daughter skip school. 99% of the reasons for absences must be sought in the school. Surely there was a conflict about which you do not know. For example, statements of teachers, defamatory girls who nag, a biased attitude towards it. And maybe, just lost interest in the subject or even learning a whole. Exit. It is important to explain to the girl that she comes to school to get knowledge, not for the fact that it appreciated the teacher. Make it clear that the teachers - it's just real people with their views and principles, weaknesses and mistakes.
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