Child, who take to visit ...

It needs the support and understanding throughout this process of mourning and permission to show feelings openly and freely. 7.Poseschat a child dying or whether to participate in a funeral depends on the child's age, his ability to understand the situation, the relationship with the dying or deceased person and, most importantly, whether the child wants it. A child should never be forced or blame for its failure to participate in the funeral or to visit a dying man. Child, who take to visit the dying or participate in the mourning ceremonies, you must do to prepare for what he sees and hears. Source: This booklet is an adapted translation booklet "Talking to children about death", published by the Office of Clinical Center Communications, Clinical Center National Institutes of Health, USA in 1990

Infectious fears

How to beat a sitting inside little frightened little man? "I was faced with a problem that exhaust me mentally and physically. I work at the firm for eight years and is well vnikla all the nuances of the case. But the next time you raise the general manager was appointed my colleague - Oleg. Work under the direction of Oleg, I can not because that he was sorry, fool. Fear is left on the street without a livelihood literally paralyzes me. Now, I sat out on medical leave. What should I do? ". Julia T., Moscow Letter commented Ph.D., professor of Yakut State University Lyudmila PETROVA Timofeevna. Winner takes all. The first thing you should do is step on the throat of his own fear and stop being afraid. When you're able to talk sensibly, you'll find that your competitor, and now the boss, you will create such conditions that you leave on their own. He understands: you - his potential enemies. But first, how to pat your nerves. So think seriously, and whether you should continue to destroy their nervous system and self-esteem. Better recognize myself frankly, at this stage, you lose, and will now be more reasonable to minimize losses. Of course, the final decision to accept you, but, apparently, your main problem to date - is to overcome your fear. You do a great expert in his field and will be able to find decent work for you. Why are men so often costs much more competent and capable persons of the female sex? The reasons are many, but one of the key - is inherent in the ladies fear of success. This typically follows women's fear of the fear of life. Fear of life is perhaps the most powerful, sits deep in the subconscious of each of us. But some overcome it easily, others - with difficulty. Many women lose precisely because of their conscious and unconscious desires often do not coincide. There is internal conflict. Such women tend to underestimate their own value, to dwell on their mistakes, afraid to make decisions, afraid to stand out from the crowd not to go "on the line of fire."